It seems that most teenagers would bow to peer pressure and go along with the crowd instead of being singled out. It is so much easier to say you believed in something than be ridiculed for being different. However, it takes a strong person to go against the grain of the crowd and stand up for what he or she truly believes in.
There are other times that I would see it very advantageous to lie if it meant life or death. For example, take an American soldier who might be taken captive by the Iranians or some other military force, it would be in his or her best interest not to disclose the truth to save his or her life as well as the life of others.
In my own experience such as school and friends, I always say what I think. My friends may have a different opinion of their own but I say what I think even if it is different. Saying what you think and being honest is the best feeling you can have with yourself. Otherwise, if you believe something that is wrong, you go home or just think to yourself “I really wish I would have said what I truly felt.” If you ever have to believe something you don’t or lie to fit in with a group of friends, they aren’t worth your time. You deserve friends that are willing to hear what you have to say even if it is different and friends that respect your opinion always. Your TRUE friends will never judge you for being different or having different opinions, but accepting you the way you are. Being different is what makes us all unique in our own way. I know I don’t want to be like everyone else so I always say what I feel no matter how different it is from other people’s opinions. It is important to respect other people’s opinions even if they are different than your own.
Twin Towers on 9/11/01